Stop Complaining!

Boy do we like to complain! And I admit, I’ve done my share of complaining and arguing.

Now, some complaining and arguing is necessary when something is wrong and it can be made right. But there are many things in this world over which we have no control. We can complain and whine, but it will accomplish nothing.

In Philippians 2:14-16, Paul tells us to “Do everything without grumbling or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, “children of God without fault in a warped and crooked generation.”[a] Then you will shine among them like stars in the sky as you hold firmly to the word of life. And then I will be able to boast on the day of Christ that I did not run or labor in vain.

As Christians, we are to shine with His light in the murky world.

In these past two weeks, I had to accept the fact that my 88-year-old mother doesn’t want my help in dealing with her recovery from surgery or with her financial issues. She prefers the help of her “godson,” Jorge. She doesn’t want to move to Arizona with me. She said it loud and clear.

I could have argued, but I didn’t. I said, “fine.” I did what I could to help her, and I headed back to Phoenix. I put it all in God’s hands. There’s nothing I do about it.

Same thing with losing my job. I could argue about the success of my efforts, but my boss only sees the lack of clients directly related to my marketing and doesn’t see the value in paying my salary any longer.

I’ve accepted the fact and see it as an opportunity to now devote all my time to promoting my Award-Winning novel, “Deo Volente! (God Willing): Love in the First Century,” continue writing book #2, “Follow Me: Love in the Second Century,” and blogging to spread the Good News of Jesus Christ.

I’m at peace with it all.

Christ left us His Peace. We have it all the time, but we tend to lose it when we react to the world in a negative manner.

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.~John 15:27

If you ever feel yourself losing God’s Peace, stop and think is what I’m doing counterproductive? Is my complaining needless and futile? WWJD? What would Jesus do in this situation?

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Great Blessings!
Soli Deo Gloria!
Giselle Aguiar
Award Winning Christian Author
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Dealing with Afflictions

He was oppressed and afflicted,
   yet he did not open his mouth;
he was led like a lamb to the slaughter,
   and as a sheep before its shearers is silent,
   so he did not open his mouth.
~Isaiah 53:7

Why do we complain when we’re afflicted? Jesus didn’t. We are society of complainers.

Ok, sometimes, if you don’t complain, wrongs don’t get righted and things don’t get fixed. But that’s not the afflictions we’re talking about here. It’s the stuff that we have no control over – like the weather. We complain when it’s too hot and we complain with it’s too cold.

What about the stuff that God throws at us? We yell, “Why me, God?” It’s usually because He wants to teach us something. For us to turn to Him for help. To be purified not burned when walking through fire (1 Peter 1:6-7). To persevere and build character (Romans 5:3-5). To make us mature and complete (James 1:2-4).

The Lord gets his best soldiers out of the highlands of affliction. ~ Charles Spurgeon

So when faced with affliction, think not so much What Would Jesus Do? but think of What Jesus Did and stop complaining.

God Bless,
Giselle Aguiar
Soli Deo Gloria
www.giselleaguiar/wwjd
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